I've been thinking a lot about keys lately.
I lose mine.
Often.
But when I can keep track of them, they're pretty useful for things like starting my car and checking my mail.
My parents didn't lock our front door when I was growing up (seriously. We had to buy new doorknobs when we went back east for a week in junior high, because we didn't even know where the keys were), so I never had a house key. I was kind of jealous of the kids on the bus who had them - on rings in their backpacks or on chains like necklaces. They could unlock things. It seemed very grown up and responsible.
When I was 15, my parents let me practice driving up and down our dirt driveway. I wasn't allowed on the actual road, but I begged them to let me take the spare car key with me to school. They must have had premonitions of my key-losing ways, because they wouldn't let me take a useless-to-me key to school as a piece of jewelry. Which meant that senior year, when I was finally allowed on the road, I wore that spare key like a badge of honor.
Fast forward 5 or so years, when I was given my first set of church keys. Somewhere in the universe, Snap started a gospel rendition of "I've Got the Power." Several of the staff members got keys around the same time, and the first few weeks afterward, we would race each other to be the one to unlock buildings and volunteer to go with "The Keyless" to open supply closets.
After awhile though, the excitement wore off. Some of those supply closets are far away from the office, and sometimes being the one with keys means being the last one to leave so you can lock up. I've been accused of losing my keys intentionally to avoid these kinds of responsibilities (unfounded, incidentally).
15 year old me would be envious of my current key ring. House keys, mail keys, car keys, church keys...it would make a fantastic, if uncomfortable, charm bracelet of responsibilities. But over the course of the next couple of weeks, I'll be giving my house and mail keys back to my landlord, selling my car, and handing over my church keys, leaving me with an empty "vintage" PLNU lanyard and "mitad del mundo" keychain. One less thing to lose, but also a tangible reminder that this chapter of my life is closing.
It's funny how such small bits of metal can become such big symbols of identity.